Podcasts
Ep. 329: Healing Old Wounds: How Boundaries Helped Me Reconnect With Someone I Love
Old family dynamics can feel impossible to change, especially when you’ve spent a lifetime carrying wounds that never had the chance to heal. For years, my relationship with someone I love was distant, tense, and full of unspoken history. I never imagined that could shift… until it did. This week on the Fragmented to Whole…
Ep. 328: How Manipulation Shows Up During the Holidays and How to Get Away from It
Manipulation is often sneaky, sometimes unintentional, and rooted in fear (of abandonment, disapproval, rejection). For those in recovery, recognizing past manipulative habits—learned as dysfunctional ways to get needs met—is key. In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, we break down how manipulation is activated during the holidays, why people-pleasing IS a form of…
Ep. 327: Five Ways to Keep the Focus on You to Create Internal Safety
Send us a text The constant focus on things and people outside of your control is draining. I spent too many years of my life in this vicious cycle of external focus and validation, leaving me feeling like a fragmented, boundaryless version of myself. But all that changed with recovery. This week on the Fragmented…
Ep. 326: Letting Go Without Falling Apart: Real Stories of Boundaries and Self-Care
Send us a text Self-care is the very first personal boundary. It’s the essential line between you and burnout, between you and your old perfectionism, and between you and the belief that your self-worth depends on what you produce. Many of us intellectually understand the need for self-care, but when we see it as a…
Ep. 325: From Flattened to Free-How to Escape the Bulldozer Cycle
Send us a text The bulldozer cycle, in relation to people pleasing, is the concept of feeling perpetually flattened by the demands and needs of others, trapped in a hidden cycle that leads to burnout and frustration. I’ll be the first to admit that setting healthy boundaries that lead to healing is hard but choosing…
Ep. 324: Why Experience Matters More Than Credentials (And How to Own Yours)
Send us a text Too many of us get caught up in perfectionism, thinking that we have to meet every requirement before we’re worthy and not to put ourselves out there until we’re certain we won’t fail. In my case, I was caught up in believing I was “too much” until one day, I came…
Ep. 323: How the Victim Role Hijacks Workplace Meetings (and What to Do Instead)
Send us a text Victim mentality shows up in all areas of our lives, but when it pops up in the workplace, it can derail an entire team of people and quietly take control over the workplace. Today, I want to peel back the curtain on how the victim role can take charge, shifting the…
Ep. 322: Back to School, Not Back to Chaos- 5 Scripts for Sanity This Fall
Send us a text The beginning of the school year is a difficult time for teachers and parents alike. Volunteer and extra curricular requests come in, calendars fill up, and before you know it, you’ve reached your capacity and your calendar is in chaos. Today, I want to give you a head start to set…
Ep. 321: Why Boundaries are the Rules of the Road for Life with 10 Examples
Send us a text The reason we have rules of the road is because they’re social boundaries. They exist to prevent harm, to reduce accidents and to create flow. When everyone keeps the focus on themselves, staying in their lane, following the rules, respecting others, boundaries, things run much more smoothly. These rules translate very…
Ep. 320: The Planets Aligned with Kelly Walker
Send us a text Kelly Walker’s story today is a powerful reminder that “the planets align” when we commit to our healing journey, even when it’s terrifying.This week’s episode 320of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about when the planets align! In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, Kelly Walker shares her experience…