Podcasts
Ep. 360: How I Learned to Trust Myself (and Why Boundaries Were the Missing Piece)
In thIn this week’s episode 360 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m sharing how my understanding of self-trust completely changed through recovery. For years, I believed I had a “bad picker” when it came to relationships. But over time, I realized the bigger issue wasn’t choosing unhealthy partners—it was staying long after I knew…
Ep. 359: Solo, Recovery, Boundary Setting, Relationships, Emotional Support, Focus on Self
In this week’s episode 359 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about something many of us have experienced but struggle to describe: what to do when someone makes you question your own reality. If you grew up in an environment where your feelings were dismissed, your experiences were minimized, or your perception was…
Ep. 358: How to Understand the Difference Between Acceptance and Boundaries
In this week’s episode 358 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about a question that comes up often: What is the difference between acceptance and boundaries? Many people think they have to choose between accepting someone as they are or setting a boundary with them. But acceptance and boundaries are not opposites. Acceptance…
Ep. 357: Why You Keep Ignoring Your Own Preferences and What to Do Instead
In this week’s episode 357 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about social boundaries in a way that might feel a little different. Instead of focusing on difficult people or how to say no, I’m exploring something more foundational: giving yourself permission to be who you are socially. Many of us learned that…
Ep. 356: How to Stop Managing Other People’s Reactions and Feel Safer Inside
In this week’s episode 356 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m exploring a core insight that sits underneath so much of my work: you cannot create internal safety by focusing externally. Many people spend enormous amounts of energy trying to feel safe by managing other people’s perceptions, reactions, emotions, and approval. But no matter…
Ep. 355: Social Boundaries: How to Stay Connected to Yourself Around Other People
In this week’s episode 355 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about social boundaries and what it means to stay connected to yourself while being connected to other people. For much of my life, social situations were exhausting because I constantly overrode my own needs, limits, and preferences in order to make other…
Ep. 354: How to Stop Over-Giving When Friendships Feel One-Sided
In this week’s episode 354 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about social boundaries, over-functioning in friendships, and what happens when relationships quietly become dependent on your emotional labor, effort, and self-abandonment. When I first entered recovery, I thought my relationship struggles were mostly about romantic relationships. What I eventually realized was that…
Ep. 353: What My Coaching Clients Taught Me About Internal Safety
Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode 353 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m sharing some of the biggest insights that emerged after analyzing 12 different coaching sessions with clients struggling with boundaries, self-care, guilt, resentment, and emotional overwhelm. What became clear is that most people do not actually need more information about…
Ep. 352: Burnout, Compassion Fatigue, and Why Self-Care Is a Professional Responsibility
Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode 352 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about burnout, compassion fatigue, and the deeper reason so many people struggle to consistently care for themselves—even when they know how important self-care is. This episode was inspired by a conversation I saw online about self-care in the…
Ep. 351: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in the Name of Success and Goals
Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode 351 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about a form of self-abandonment that many high-achieving people don’t recognize because it’s often disguised as ambition, productivity, or “doing it for yourself.” This episode explores the difference between genuinely caring for yourself and organizing your entire life…