Fragmented to Whole:
Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery Podcast
Tired of feeling fragmented and overwhelmed? Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12-Step Recovery is your guide to creating a life of wholeness, authenticity, and healthy boundaries. Join Barb Nangle, a boundaries coach and speaker, as she shares raw and honest insights from her own journey and the principles of 12-step recovery. Discover how to set boundaries without guilt or shame, overcome people-pleasing tendencies, manage your emotions effectively, cultivate a stronger sense of self, and build healthier relationships. Barb's approach is raw, honest, and sometimes a little bit (okay, a lot) sweary.
Barb doesn't speak for or endorse any particular 12 step program of recovery. Though she's a huge fan of 12 step recovery, and a member of two 12 step fellowships, she cannot speak for them. If you're ready for real talk and practical tools for transformation, tune in!
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Ep. 326: Letting Go Without Falling Apart: Real Stories of Boundaries and Self-Care
Send us a text Self-care is the very first personal boundary. It’s the essential line between you and burnout, between you and your old perfectionism, and between you and the belief that your self-worth depends on what you produce. Many of us intellectually understand the need for self-care, but when we see it as a…
Ep. 325: From Flattened to Free-How to Escape the Bulldozer Cycle
Send us a text The bulldozer cycle, in relation to people pleasing, is the concept of feeling perpetually flattened by the demands and needs of others, trapped in a hidden cycle that leads to burnout and frustration. I’ll be the first to admit that setting healthy boundaries that lead to healing is hard but choosing…
Ep. 324: Why Experience Matters More Than Credentials (And How to Own Yours)
Send us a text Too many of us get caught up in perfectionism, thinking that we have to meet every requirement before we’re worthy and not to put ourselves out there until we’re certain we won’t fail. In my case, I was caught up in believing I was “too much” until one day, I came…
Ep. 323: How the Victim Role Hijacks Workplace Meetings (and What to Do Instead)
Send us a text Victim mentality shows up in all areas of our lives, but when it pops up in the workplace, it can derail an entire team of people and quietly take control over the workplace. Today, I want to peel back the curtain on how the victim role can take charge, shifting the…
Ep. 322: Back to School, Not Back to Chaos- 5 Scripts for Sanity This Fall
Send us a text The beginning of the school year is a difficult time for teachers and parents alike. Volunteer and extra curricular requests come in, calendars fill up, and before you know it, you’ve reached your capacity and your calendar is in chaos. Today, I want to give you a head start to set…
Ep. 321: Why Boundaries are the Rules of the Road for Life with 10 Examples
Send us a text The reason we have rules of the road is because they’re social boundaries. They exist to prevent harm, to reduce accidents and to create flow. When everyone keeps the focus on themselves, staying in their lane, following the rules, respecting others, boundaries, things run much more smoothly. These rules translate very…
Ep. 320: The Planets Aligned with Kelly Walker
Send us a text Kelly Walker’s story today is a powerful reminder that “the planets align” when we commit to our healing journey, even when it’s terrifying.This week’s episode 320of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about when the planets align! In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, Kelly Walker shares her experience…
Ep. 319: Why Mindset Matters More Than You Think: Boundaries, Recovery, and Belief
Send us a text What we believe is real becomes real in its consequences. And when our beliefs are negative, self-depricating, or otherwise limiting, they can create barriers in our lives. But when we rewire our brains and our beliefs shift, our behavior also shifts. This week’s episode 319 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about…
Ep. 318: How to Go From Permeable to Protected- Building an Emotional Force Field
Send us a text One of the most common themes I see in my clients (and something I have experienced myself) is that we literally feel other people’s feelings. We’re permeable to them because we don’t have a boundary. This week’s episode 318 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to go from…
Ep. 317: Why Controlling Everything Still Doesn’t Make You Feel Better
Send us a text Many of us find ourselves in this delusional thinking that the outside world could give us satisfaction, if only things went our way. The truth? There is no external solution to internal pain, and it only brings you deeper into a victim mentality. This week’s episode 317 of the Fragmented to…
Ep. 316: How to Backfill the Love You Didn’t Get as a Child
Send us a text Recovery showed me that I abused and neglected myself physically, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually. I stayed in relationships and workplaces that were toxic, and I put up with abuse from bosses, colleagues, sweethearts, and others. This was all because I had this internalized belief from my family that you just put…
Ep. 315: Keep the Focus on Yourself- The #1 Boundary Setting Rule
Send us a text People tend to hear the motto “keep the docus on yourself” and think it means “be selfish.” That could not be further from the truth. It’s actually about stopping your focus on what other people, places, and things are doing (or not doing) and turning that focus inward. This week’s episode 315…
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"Barb, it's clear that you're speaking from your lived experience, and what you talk about is beyond the rooms of recovery. You actually operationalize recovery."
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"Your podcast was a delight to listen to. Authenticity, sincerity starts within and re-parenting oneself with gentleness, humor, love and respect are the tools that fuels the process."
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"You have opened doors in my mind that I did not know existed. Listening to you and your podcasts has made an enormous impact on my life, and now my outlook. You rock!" ~ A.
"Thank you, Barb! Listening to your podcast gave me hope that you could help me.
Framing everything through the lens of “boundaries” made sense to me. Something “clicked.” I realized many of my own struggles – maybe all of them – could be seen through the same lens. I also felt – after bingeing your podcasts – that I already knew you and that you were a straight shooter. You experienced many of the challenges that I was facing, and I greatly appreciated your willingness to share openly and honestly. And I was so encouraged to hear you talk about how much better your life is after starting your own recovery journey." ~ K
