Posts by Rosa Carrasco-Vergara
Ep 221 – The Evolution of My Reparenting Journey- Reshaping the Past to Heal the Future PART 1
As I mentioned in previous episodes, I am on a journey of reparenting myself. To those unfamiliar with reparenting, some techniques I use and share in this episode may seem crazy. Still, in all truth, they have healed me in a deep and profound way and I encourage you to be open-minded to new practices…
Read MoreYou Can Do Hard Things – I Know This Because You’re Already Doing It!
Issue 30. July 7, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Alexei Maridashvili If you follow my writing, speaking or podcasting, it’s probably because you want your life to be better. That is, you want something (or things) to change in your life. Trying to make changes in your lifelong habits is hard.…
Read MoreEp 220 – The Past Does Not Equal the Future with Stephan Neff
Your past does not equal your future. Just because you’ve made some bad choices and picked up some negative habits along the way does not mean you are stuck in this. You have the power to start making small changes today to reverse the effects of your past life and create a life worth living.…
Read MoreHow to Understand the Difference Between Isolation and Healthy Alone Time and Why It’s Important
Issue 29. June 30, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Hannah Busing I’ve lived alone most of my adult life and I got really good at isolation. That’s how I dealt with my fears and anxieties for decades before recovery. I indulged in my various addictions and compulsions in isolation, though…
Read MoreEp 219 – How to Understand What a Spiritual Awakening Is and Three Personal Examples
The whole point of the 12 steps of recovery is to have a spiritual awakening and a spiritual awakening means we have changed. As a result of my recovery, I can be, see, think, do and have that which I could not before recovery. This week’s episode 219 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is…
Read MoreWhat the Saying “If I’m Disturbed There’s Something Wrong with Me” Means
Issue 28. June 23, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Mason Wilkes “It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us.” – The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous When I first read this quote I thought, “fuck…
Read MoreEp 218 – My Vulnerable Share About Family Dysfunction and How It Results In Trauma
The thing with trauma is that sometimes it can pop up and trigger us when we’re not expecting it. Last week, I attended a concert that brought up a lot of emotional trauma for me, and inspired by others in recovery, I decided to record my vulnerable thoughts and emotions in real-time to share with…
Read More11 Hallmarks of Enmeshed Relationships and Three Ways to Get Out Of Them
Issue 27. June 16, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Kamran Abdullayev When we’re enmeshed, we aren’t allowed to express our individuality and we aren’t capable of focusing on ourselves. We’re overly concerned with other people. We may think we’re involved in life, but we’re really not involved in our own…
Read MoreEp 217 – Why Pausing is So Important and What To Do When You Pause
One of the big tasks in recovery is going from being a reactor to an actor in life, or to act ON life rather than reacting to it. This is huge and is another way of coming out of the victim mentality we often find ourselves living in. This week’s episode 217 of the Fragmented…
Read MoreThe Game-Changing Term I Learned in Recovery: “Info, Not Ammo”
Issue 26. June 9, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ One of the most important concepts I learned in recovery is “info, not ammo.” That is, when you learn something negative about yourself, don’t use it as ammunition to beat yourself up, use it as information to learn, incorporate and grow from. This…
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