"I look forward to each newsletter and podcast because the topics always seem to be just right, but this one really, REALLY hit home. I read it and reread it. I saved it as a PDF, highlighted the crap out of it, and then did a ton of journaling.

I saw many areas where I have felt trapped and blamed it on my partner. But I realized I could do every single thing on my list of 'stuff I can't do because of him.' I was choosing not to in order to avoid the discomfort that might arise from his disappointment, disagreement, or thinking I'm weird.

It was a real moment of being honest with myself. It also led to attending my first ACA meeting.

Thank you for this incredible article and all your work." ~ K.H.