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Issue 31. July 14, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ This image was inspired by management guru Stephen Covey who introduced the concept of Circles of Concern versus Circles of Control. I love it for so many reasons, including that it’s really helpful for visual learners. If you want to live your life on purpose and be…

Issue 30. July 7, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Alexei Maridashvili If you follow my writing, speaking or podcasting, it’s probably because you want your life to be better. That is, you want something (or things) to change in your life. Trying to make changes in your lifelong habits is hard.…

Issue 29. June 30, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Hannah Busing I’ve lived alone most of my adult life and I got really good at isolation. That’s how I dealt with my fears and anxieties for decades before recovery. I indulged in my various addictions and compulsions in isolation, though…

Issue 28. June 23, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Mason Wilkes “It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us.” – The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous When I first read this quote I thought, “fuck…

Issue 27. June 16, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Kamran Abdullayev When we’re enmeshed, we aren’t allowed to express our individuality and we aren’t capable of focusing on ourselves. We’re overly concerned with other people. We may think we’re involved in life, but we’re really not involved in our own…

Issue 26. June 9, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ One of the most important concepts I learned in recovery is “info, not ammo.” That is, when you learn something negative about yourself, don’t use it as ammunition to beat yourself up, use it as information to learn, incorporate and grow from. This…

Issue 25. June 2, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ photo credit: Kamran Abdullayev People often confuse humility with humiliation. It makes sense because they sound quite similar. But they’re not! I’ll start with humiliation because I’m not going to spend a lot of time on that in this essay. Humiliation is when you feel…

Issue 24. May 26, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ 12 Step recovery is for people with either a physical or process addiction. Physical addiction is when there’s some kind of substance we’re physically dependent on, like alcohol, drugs or food. A process addiction is when we have a compulsion to engage consistently…

Issue 23. May 19, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ Most people are clear that there are such things as boundaries of self-protection, though they may not call them that. And if they have poor boundaries, they’re probably also clear that others are “walking all over them” (thus the need for boundaries of…

Issue 22. May 12, 2023 ✨ Higher Power Coaching & Consulting ✨ Sometimes people get offended when you set boundaries with them because they don’t have healthy boundaries themselves. That means if you’re getting offended when other people set boundaries with you, it may be because you don’t have healthy boundaries yourself! When we start to set boundaries with others…