Stop being super focused on what others think, exhausting yourself and self-sabotaging!
Learn how to keep the focus on yourself, let go of the resentment from agreeing to do things you don't really want to, and stop pleasing everyone but YOU!
Barb Nangle
Boundaries Coach & Former People-Pleaser
INTRODUCING
BUILD Better Boundaries Group Program for Women
An 8-Week Boundary-Building Program So You Can Let Go of the Guilt, Shame and Resentment!
This Is For You If...
- You feel guilt and shame when you try to set boundaries
- You're so accommodating that you don't even know what you like anymore
- You end up being resentful of others because you keep saying yes when you really want to say no
- You're always focused on others and ignore your needs/neglect yourself
- You're constantly worrying about what you could/should be doing for others
- You have no idea where to start when it comes to setting boundaries (or what a boundary even IS!)
- You're tired of trying to figure out how this boundaries thing works and want guidance and support from someone who's helped hundreds BUILD Better Boundaries!
You'll Walk Away
from This Program with...
- The ability to prioritize yourself and things you love to do without being riddled with guilt and shame
- Tools to discern what YOU really want vs. what others really want
- Feeling calm and confident when you tell someone no
- The ability to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful
- Knowing how to communicate your boundaries without having a confrontation
- Knowing when and where to set boundaries that are right for YOU
- The ability to follow through on your self-care so you can have a healthy work-life balance
Why I Started This Group
For most of my life I had this feeling that I should shrink down, back off and be "less." As I built healthy boundaries and really got to know myself, I came to truly believe "I'm just the right amount of everything."
And that's just one of the many, many changes I realized as a result of building healthy boundaries. The best way to illustrate how profoundly I've changed as a result of my healthy boundaries is that I'm now in a healthy romantic relationship for the first time EVER! I'm a heterosexual woman, so I've always dated men, and I just wasn't able to show up as my full self with those men. I'm now able to do that with ease.
One the most important skills I learned by building boundaries is learning how to directly communicate, which is required in intimate relationships. I was used to indirect communication, which I learned in my family. What I want is for other women to have the kind of transformation I've had, and to experience true intimacy, whether they date men or women or both.
A Candid Moment
This video is a private moment that was captured at my 60th birthday women's brunch on April 1, 2023. I didn't know I was on camera!
When my friend shared it with me, I just knew I had to share it with others so they'd know who I am, what's important to me, and why I do what I do. This is not a "job" for me, this is a mission!
The 
Higher Powered 5-Part Framework
So you can let go of guilt, shame and resentment
B
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BELIEVE
UNDO
IDEALIZE
LOVE
DELIVER
Beliefs are often so deep we don't even know that we believe things that are not true. Your mindset will be altered in two ways:
- Debunking your unconscious scripts that are getting in the way of setting healthy boundaries.
- Disrupt your old patterns of thinking about yourself that aren't serving you.
You'll undo long-standing patterns of thinking and behavior that have not been serving you. We'll create a boundary system tailored just for you. This system will remind you going forward what you need to do to uphold and maintain your boundaries so you can pursue things you desire without guilt or shame.
Your core ideals and values matter. We'll clarify your top five values, then you'll build your boundary system in alignment with those values. This ensures that your life stays in alignment with your values, making it easier for you to set and maintain healthy boundaries. THIS is the key to becoming whole.
Boundaries are about relationships and love. It starts with loving yourself so you can have a life you love. That means learning to keep the focus on YOU. You'll learn to do this in four ways:
- What do *I* want?
- Is this my business?
- What's my part here?
- How do I sustain self-care?
Delivering your message when setting boundaries so it has impact requires empowered communication. You'll become empowered to directly communicate with others based on recommended scripts, no matter what their role in your personal or professional life.
This framework will position you to show up for yourself in ways you weren't previously able. You'll have an altered mindset which will allow you to undo those life-long patterns that weren't serving you. You'll know how to love and focus on yourself, have empowered communication skills and be in alignment with your values and ideals.
This Is *NOT* For You If...
- You're not ready to try something different
- You're not willing to follow the process I teach
- You think other people changing will solve your problems
- You can't handle me swearing or talking about God
- You have healthy boundaries already
- You prefer to work one-on-one with me (click here for private coaching info)
You need this program if...
- You frequently set boundaries but then take them back
- You avoid people or cut them out rather than set boundaries with them
- You constantly read about boundaries but then NEVER set them
- "Figuring it out" hasn't work for you
- You constantly talk about why you're dissatisfied but never share what you actually WANT
WEDNESDAYS, JUNE 7 - JULY 26, 2023
7-8:30 p.m. EST
In This Program You Will Receive:
- A game-changing three-hour online retreat to kick-start Building your Boundaries and bond with the group
- Eight weekly 90-minute group coaching calls on Zoom
- A growing multi-media curriculum of my best articles & podcasts on building better healthy boundaries!
- A hard copy of my 134-page Better Boundaries Workbook with weekly training exercises to build your own boundary system
- A private, safe, & loving online community of boundary-builders and boundary buddies
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
- What if I can't make it during that time, will the sessions be recorded?
- Yes, the sessions will be recorded and you can access them in your member portal
- How much time will I need to put into this program each week?
- In addition to the 90 minutes for the live calls, you should expect to spend about 90 minutes going through the curriculum materials and doing the workbook exercises.
- What if I don't feel comfortable sharing my private stuff with others?
- You're not alone in that. It's usually easier to share with others who are going through what you're going through. However, you don't have to share if you don't want to. If this will be a barrier for you in getting the most out of the program, please consider private coaching with me instead (click here to learn about private coaching with me).
- How many people will be in the group?
- There will be a maximum of 15 people in the group.
Payment Options
Pay in
Full
$1,200
3-Month
Payment Plan
3 x $450 = $1,350
4-Month
Payment Plan
4 x $375 = $1,500
What people are saying
“[After Barb’s program] I finally was able to see my part in my resentment and the disrespect I felt...As I…realized I was allowing the behaviors, I learned to be very clear about what it is I would and would no longer allow in my life. I have CHOICES and I no longer need to cave. I can choose myself, that is not selfish, it is Self-love. It was amazing to share this with others on the same journey. I am happy to report that I am feeling more at peace than I ever have before and I will continue to ‘Do the Work.’”
~ Rose
"I found working in a group a safer way to deal with my own stuff for two reasons: I can see other people’s pattern that I also have easier in them and it is comforting finding out I’m not alone in having that pattern. This created more compassion for myself and others."
~ L.
6 months later, L had this to say, "I remember that boundaries are not to keep people out but to keep me in check and figure out what I truly want. I've been much better at not doing things because people will like it. I'm doing what I like first and foremost. I'm doing better at caring for MY time. First knowing what I want is important."
"I really liked that in all of the discussions we had, every session there were multiple things that someone relayed that was really profound to someone else and significantly helped them on understanding the new topics we were learning."
~ Anonymous
"Although I was aware of many of my limiting beliefs, I didn't know how to change them. The workbook, podcasts, and articles all contributed to helping me shift those beliefs and recognize how they were holding me back and that by taking care of myself (saying no, keeping the focus on myself, seeing negative situations and thoughts as info, not ammo), I could be more beneficial to others… I no longer feel like I am responsible for anyone's happiness, misery, or any other emotion or condition. We are all 100% responsible for our own emotions and conditions because they stem from our own perspectives. I cannot be responsible for anyone else's perspective but my own.
~ Alisa